"The soul mate" or "your better half" ... The ideal partner, soul mate ... that person who apparently (and according to ancient writings found in the folders of some adolescents) belongs to the other half of the angel who fell from the sky and his heart broke in two on landing at Earth ...
All these legends about love do more harm than good.
course is much nicer to tell someone "You're my better half" , overwhelmed with a: "'re most compatible with me that circumstances have placed in my path and with which I agreed, incidentally, in love each other ...". But let's face it, which of the two statements is true?
Against all that can be classified as romantic conception, it is implausible to think that there is only one perfect person for each of us. Because, in that case, the two pieces of angel fell close to each other? It would be a real bitch to my other piece was in Papua New Guinea ... or if I was born in Zaragoza and moved to Cadiz because my father moved ... or worse, transferred to the person carrying the other half of my soul ... That means that my parents-and ultimately self-chiefs have condemned me irretrievably deep loneliness, or at best, to share it with other similar decoupled in unusual circumstances ...
Like it or not and goes against Disney that the lesson goes, it seems much more plausible that there is one person for each of us. This, it seems more pessimistic frivolous and do not like. Not because the other option is prettier, but it is easier.
The possible our love stories are governed by an uncertainty principle, disturbs us ... we get angry. We hate to not be targeted to a particular person because it makes everything much more complicated.
The authors of our destiny knowing that we not allow us to delegate responsibility for decisions ethereal ... something alien to us.
Losing someone is never our fault, just the fate ... A good relationship should not require any effort of the soul mate ... everything is easy and natural ... You do not need us to move to find the love ... he will come looking for us!
And what of the breaks. When we've been in love with someone whom we consider our soul mate, tried to hold on to it no matter what happens, with the possibility of not finding love in someone other than her portrayal ... That fear never to love or be loved, we owe it to the design of the dome. In all those we have always said there is only one person for us.
And, dear, we like it or not we like and it sounds almost cruel, in love, no one was irreplaceable.
One falls in love with someone because certain circumstances have led it that way. Not that anyone can be a partner / a. Obviously, to make the relationship work, you must meet certain requirements, it is necessary to have a compatibility mode profile, interests, affinities ...
I mean I do not think there is only love, not think anything will guide us to the perfect person ... I think you can love more than once. That there is no perfect person per se, but we do it. That love requires effort, requires work to get "fit" the two souls. And everything else is an excuse to get rid of the responsibility that we ourselves have in building our own love story ...
addition, the destination, if any, should be far more important matters to attend to that finding a lid for every pot ...
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